Valentine’s Day is here, and if there’s ever a time to show a new mom how much she’s appreciated, it’s now. Bringing a new life into the world is magical, but let’s be honest—it’s also exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes downright lonely. Between sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, recovering physically, and adjusting to her new identity, she’s likely giving everything she has to her baby and her family, leaving little to no time for herself.
So this Valentine’s Day, it’s time to turn the spotlight back to her—not just as a caregiver but as the incredible woman she is. Instead of baby-focused gifts, think about what would truly make her feel seen and cherished. Whether it’s a quiet moment of indulgence, a boost of confidence or a luxurious escape from the demands of motherhood, she deserves something that reminds her she’s so much more than “just a mom.”
From thoughtful self-care essentials to indulgent treats that celebrate her hard work, this curated list of 15 mom-centered gift ideas is designed to comfort, uplift, and show her how deeply she’s loved.
Slip Queen Silk Pillow Cases, $55
Give her the gift of better sleep (even if it’s in short bursts) with a luxurious silk pillowcase. Not only does it feel incredible, but it’s also gentle on her skin and hair, reducing bedhead and helping her glow. Plus, it’s naturally cooling—perfect for postpartum night sweats.
Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug, $90
For the mom who can’t remember the last time she drank her coffee while it was still hot, this smart mug is a game-changer. The Ember Mug keeps her drink at the perfect temperature, so she can sip and enjoy—even if she gets interrupted by a fussy baby.
Brooklinen Down Comforter, $159
Help her relax and unwind after a long day with Brooklinen’s down comforter. Made from 100 percent Hutterite down and wrapped in a silky smooth 100-percent cotton sateen shell, it’s like sleeping on a cloud. She can curl up with it during baby’s nap time for some much-needed R&R.
Athleta Salutation Joggers, $99
Comfortable and stylish, these joggers are made with buttery-soft fabric that feels like a second skin. They’re perfect for postpartum lounging but versatile enough to wear out for coffee or a casual walk.
Lunya Washable Silk Tank Set, $198
This luxe sleepwear set combines elegance and practicality. Made from washable silk, it’s easy to care for and perfect for making her feel special—even when she’s lounging at home.
Saje Aroma Om Diffuser, $170
Bring a spa vibe to her home with this beautiful diffuser from Saje. Pair it with calming essential oils like lavender or eucalyptus to create a peaceful oasis where she can relax and unwind.
The Five Minute Journal, $28
This simple yet impactful journal helps her practice daily gratitude, even in the busiest of seasons. With prompts for reflection and goal-setting, it’s an easy way to cultivate positivity and mindfulness.
Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Throw, $130
Known for being incredibly soft, this throw is a mom-approved favorite. It’s perfect for snuggling up during late-night feedings or catching a quick nap while the baby sleeps.
Alo Tie Dye Warrior Mat, $129
Encourage her to find her zen with this ultra-comfortable yoga mat. Whether she’s a yoga enthusiast or just starting, this mat provides excellent cushioning and grip for stretching, meditation, or workouts.
Calm App Subscription, $69.99/year
The Calm app offers guided meditations, sleep stories, and breathing exercises to help her manage stress and get better rest. It’s like a mental reset button she can use anytime, anywhere.
Theragun Mini Massage Gun, $181
Postpartum tension and aches don’t stand a chance with the Theragun Mini. This compact device delivers targeted relief to sore muscles—perfect for alleviating postpartum shoulder or back pain from nursing or holding a baby all day.
OUAI St. Barts Body Care Bundle, $124
Transport her to a tropical escape—no passport required—with this luxurious duo which includes a hydrating body cleanser and a rich body cream. Think notes of dragonfruit, tuberose, and orange blossom that will make her feel like she’s on a sun-soaked vacation. Perfect for a new mom who deserves a little indulgence, this bundle turns everyday self-care into an island getaway.
Artifact Uprising Custom Photo Book, $50-$150+
Gift her a gorgeous, high-quality photo book that’s all about her. Collect snapshots of her journey into motherhood or her favorite memories to remind her how loved and appreciated she is beyond her new role.
Milk Bar V’Day Truffle Dozen Box With Band, $38
Treat her to a sweet moment of indulgence with Milk Bar’s iconic truffle dozen, perfectly dressed up for Valentine’s Day. These bite-sized treats come in a variety of decadent flavors, including chocolatey classics and fruity favorites, making every bite a celebration. Ideal for the mom who could use a little pick-me-up (and let’s be honest, who couldn’t?), this gift combines nostalgia with gourmet sophistication. Bonus: The festive packaging means it’s ready to gift—no wrapping required!
In the Face of Catastrophe, $22.95
This poignant and powerful read offers stories of resilience, hope and healing, making it a meaningful gift for any mom navigating life’s challenges. Written with raw honesty and heartfelt insight, In the Face of Catastrophe provides a comforting reminder that strength can emerge even in the toughest times. Perfect for Valentine’s Day, this book speaks to the heart and reminds her she’s never alone in her journey. A thoughtful way to show you care.
Valentine’s Day is all about showing love, and these gifts do just that by focusing on the new mom herself. Whether you’re celebrating your partner, sister, or best friend, these thoughtful ideas will remind her just how special she is. Let her know she’s loved, appreciated and deserving of all the self-care this Valentine’s Day.
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Jenn Sinrich is the co-founder of Mila & Jo Media, an award-winning journalist and mom to Mila and Leo. She's also on-track to become a bereavement and postpartum doula to help women, like her, who've experienced pregnancy loss. She's a Peloton-tread addict who loves to cook and spend time with her friends and family. A Boston-native, she has always loved the Big Apple, which she called her home for close to a decade. Follow Jenn on Instagram. and visit her website.
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